Hey Curvaceous Mamasitas!
Ok. So since my pregnancy I've gotten mixed reviews on my appearance. I have had some that make me feel on top of the world and others that made me feel down in the dumps. What I've gathered from both is to live like Rupaul said, with complete disregard for people's negative comments and soak up all of the positivity. I've heard " I see you're getting fat" and "I just noticed you were pregnant (and I was 6 1/2 months preggo with a noticeable weight gain)".
Since my weight has always been an emotional and physical roller coaster ride, I promised myself that during my pregnancy I wouldn't pay attention to the scale and focus on my growing baby. But sometimes that's hard to do. So here's my suggestion to you when you noticed that your nose is widening or people say "I thought you may be pregnant but it looked like you were just getting fat", say my body is creating a comfortable space for my child. And if your sweetie can't console that fat feeling, understand that men may not understand that this is still our bodies and we want to feel good. My honey has the distinct way of making me feel sexy with the simplest words. So I've made those words affirmations and suggest that you create some of your own and stand naked in the mirror and marvel at your new curves.
Unfortunately they are a lot of rude people in the world and we have to encounter them. I've even had people comment on the time of year I conceived! The thing that helps me shake off all of the foolishness is to remember that something inside them is unhappy and we all know misery loves company.
So beautiful moms, if you don't hear it today...YOU ARE SOO FLY, SEXY, and GORGEOUS!!!
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Saturday, August 28, 2010
Head Over Heels
Hey Lactating Ladies!
So I was watching one of my fav movies the other day called Kinky Boots. I know it sounds naughty but its a British dramady (drama meets comedy). Its a great movie because in the end each character realizes that they have to be true to themselves and care for others around them. One of the lines really resonates with me. One of the leading characters is a drag queen and says that heels are "three inches of tubular sex". Ok so the line is kinda out there but the thought behind it is so true. Heels make a woman stand different, feel confident, and make her calves look awesome. But how do we preggers capture that feeling when our feet are swollen and the thought of standing in flats makes us wince in agony?!
Dr. Scholl's to the rescue! I have a closet full of heels and haven't worn any in months. I miss the great feeling of sliding into a killer pair of heels and modeling in front of my mirror. Between my career (social work) and my ever expanding feet I have to requalify my shoes as "sitting pretty shoes". These are the shoes that look way to good to sit in the closet but that you can only tolerate if you only sit when wearing them. I have been contemplating just how to pull of this venture. I'm going to share with you my plan of attack.
I plan on wearing heels to my baby shower and need to prepare for this venture. Thanks to a friend, I discovered that certain shoe stores will stretch shoes for you. My feet have always been wide so I was ecstatic to find this out. I think I 'm going to try this out at home. I'm going to wear the heels I plan on rocking for the shower for at least an hour a day to stretch them out. I'll place a shoe horn or something to retain the shape.
If my tootsies begin to scream I'll dip them in my foot bath and make use of the foot treatment kit I was given as a prize at a bridal shower. The foot bath I purchased from Walmart for less than $20! Then there is my personal masseuse, my honey. Hope my antics and possible discomfort spares you the same fate.
Until next time fashionistas, stay foxy!
So I was watching one of my fav movies the other day called Kinky Boots. I know it sounds naughty but its a British dramady (drama meets comedy). Its a great movie because in the end each character realizes that they have to be true to themselves and care for others around them. One of the lines really resonates with me. One of the leading characters is a drag queen and says that heels are "three inches of tubular sex". Ok so the line is kinda out there but the thought behind it is so true. Heels make a woman stand different, feel confident, and make her calves look awesome. But how do we preggers capture that feeling when our feet are swollen and the thought of standing in flats makes us wince in agony?!
Dr. Scholl's to the rescue! I have a closet full of heels and haven't worn any in months. I miss the great feeling of sliding into a killer pair of heels and modeling in front of my mirror. Between my career (social work) and my ever expanding feet I have to requalify my shoes as "sitting pretty shoes". These are the shoes that look way to good to sit in the closet but that you can only tolerate if you only sit when wearing them. I have been contemplating just how to pull of this venture. I'm going to share with you my plan of attack.
I plan on wearing heels to my baby shower and need to prepare for this venture. Thanks to a friend, I discovered that certain shoe stores will stretch shoes for you. My feet have always been wide so I was ecstatic to find this out. I think I 'm going to try this out at home. I'm going to wear the heels I plan on rocking for the shower for at least an hour a day to stretch them out. I'll place a shoe horn or something to retain the shape.
If my tootsies begin to scream I'll dip them in my foot bath and make use of the foot treatment kit I was given as a prize at a bridal shower. The foot bath I purchased from Walmart for less than $20! Then there is my personal masseuse, my honey. Hope my antics and possible discomfort spares you the same fate.
Until next time fashionistas, stay foxy!
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
All Dolled Up
Hey Regal Mommas!
I guess the world doesn't stop spinning just because your pregnant. There are still formal events and occasions to get all dolled up. During my pregnancy I have been invited to three events that require me to seriously plan what I will wear. I had to get an outfit to two weddings and a tea! Not an easy task considering there is a bump that can not be ignored.
So I did what I usually do, look on the Internet. I ordered a dress from Target and was quite disappointed. The designer was Moody Mammas and I can see being moody in the dress. It was poorly made and was no appropriate for any dress occasion. I didn't feel pretty at all. I sent it back.
I also made an unrelated trip to the thrift store and found a pink and purple cocktail dress. My mom found a tea dress at the thrift store months ago and at the time I couldn't picture an even to wear it to.
The key to being all dolled up is to pay attention to fit, practice in your heels, and go soft with your make-up. The wrong dress can make you look like you have an engorged beer belly. So be open to trying the dress on and give it a spin. Sit down in it, practice poses, and see where it hits with your heels. I wore the pink and purple cocktail dress to a wedding and got compliments. I wore a flower in my hair and minimal jewelry to allow the dress and my new body to take center stage.
Your feet are not what they used to be, so practice in your heels. You may need to take a trip to Paylay (Payless) and get a different size for the occasion. Allow your pregnancy glow be the focus of your make-up. Choose delicate colors and soft lips. Your bump makes you beautiful and you don't need too much to dress it up.
I'll post pictures of both outfits, hope it inspires you! Can't wait till our next chat!
I guess the world doesn't stop spinning just because your pregnant. There are still formal events and occasions to get all dolled up. During my pregnancy I have been invited to three events that require me to seriously plan what I will wear. I had to get an outfit to two weddings and a tea! Not an easy task considering there is a bump that can not be ignored.
So I did what I usually do, look on the Internet. I ordered a dress from Target and was quite disappointed. The designer was Moody Mammas and I can see being moody in the dress. It was poorly made and was no appropriate for any dress occasion. I didn't feel pretty at all. I sent it back.
I also made an unrelated trip to the thrift store and found a pink and purple cocktail dress. My mom found a tea dress at the thrift store months ago and at the time I couldn't picture an even to wear it to.
The key to being all dolled up is to pay attention to fit, practice in your heels, and go soft with your make-up. The wrong dress can make you look like you have an engorged beer belly. So be open to trying the dress on and give it a spin. Sit down in it, practice poses, and see where it hits with your heels. I wore the pink and purple cocktail dress to a wedding and got compliments. I wore a flower in my hair and minimal jewelry to allow the dress and my new body to take center stage.
Your feet are not what they used to be, so practice in your heels. You may need to take a trip to Paylay (Payless) and get a different size for the occasion. Allow your pregnancy glow be the focus of your make-up. Choose delicate colors and soft lips. Your bump makes you beautiful and you don't need too much to dress it up.
I'll post pictures of both outfits, hope it inspires you! Can't wait till our next chat!
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Is That Pool Water?
Hey Pretty Ladies,
The first time I witnessed stretch marks was on a visit to my grandmother's house. I used to love to share the same bed with her, watch tv, and chat about anything and everything. On one visit I watched her as she got out of the bed and noticed lines on her back and legs. In my innocence I asked "Grandma, why do you have pool water on your body?" She laughed and as I got older I realized that those same lines were on me and the were the evil and dreaded stretch marks!
So what's a girl to do when her skin has to stretch in order to make room for a baby? Are we doomed to live with these wretched invaders? Nope! My advisor told me about a great cream called Mother's Friend Body Skin Cream. You can purchase it at amazon.com. I rub it on my stomach, but, and upper legs. Also I'm not sure if its just an old wives's tale but I've been told not to scratch anywhere. Apparently scratching causes stretch marks. I just gently rub when I get the sensation to scratch. So far these methods have kept the preggo stretch marks at bay.
If you can't afford the cream, my suggestion would be to keep your skin moisturized. Invest in a really good lotion and incorporate coco butter into your morning and night regimen. Now go out and fight the good fight. Say it with me No Stretch Marks!
The first time I witnessed stretch marks was on a visit to my grandmother's house. I used to love to share the same bed with her, watch tv, and chat about anything and everything. On one visit I watched her as she got out of the bed and noticed lines on her back and legs. In my innocence I asked "Grandma, why do you have pool water on your body?" She laughed and as I got older I realized that those same lines were on me and the were the evil and dreaded stretch marks!
So what's a girl to do when her skin has to stretch in order to make room for a baby? Are we doomed to live with these wretched invaders? Nope! My advisor told me about a great cream called Mother's Friend Body Skin Cream. You can purchase it at amazon.com. I rub it on my stomach, but, and upper legs. Also I'm not sure if its just an old wives's tale but I've been told not to scratch anywhere. Apparently scratching causes stretch marks. I just gently rub when I get the sensation to scratch. So far these methods have kept the preggo stretch marks at bay.
If you can't afford the cream, my suggestion would be to keep your skin moisturized. Invest in a really good lotion and incorporate coco butter into your morning and night regimen. Now go out and fight the good fight. Say it with me No Stretch Marks!
Monday, August 23, 2010
Her Cup Runeth Over
Hey Buxom Beauties!
So as our bodies change there are some parts of us that requires special attention. Our breasts and bottoms. They are ever expanding and need the proper support. So that means investing a good bra and comfy undies.
I must admit I was a bit hesitant on purchasing maternity under wear. I thought to myself " Who wants to wear granny panties?". But I'm glad I took a look at the Motherhood Maternity lingerie section. I purchased two packs of maternity underwear. I picked up some boy shorts and thongs. Though the designs are far from Vickie's (Victoria's Secret), they are cute and don't make me feel like I'm 84 years old. I would personally recommend the boy shorts over the thongs. They are both made of cotton and have extra stretch in them. The boy short just feels better.The price wasn't half bad either. I spent less than $15 on each pack and it was worth the cost.I don't know about you but I definitely do not miss the wedgies from my pre maternity under wear. And my honey sends his compliments to motherhood maternity.
On to the over the shoulder bolder holder, better known as a bra. Its seems the fashion industry takes advantage of our vulnerable population. They charge exorbitant prices for things they know we need and is hard to substitute. I haven't purchased a maternity/nursing bra yet but judging by the rapid growth I need to get to a store asap! So I took to the Internet to do some price comparisons. Motherhood.com has the best prices. The price range on their bras are $13-$22. Target.com has some pretty good prices you can spend $58 on one of theirs. A Pea in the Pod must be out of their minds with their prices! I won't even mention their price range.
I'll be ordering two this weekend and will report back my experience. Happy Lingerie Shopping! TTYL!
So as our bodies change there are some parts of us that requires special attention. Our breasts and bottoms. They are ever expanding and need the proper support. So that means investing a good bra and comfy undies.
I must admit I was a bit hesitant on purchasing maternity under wear. I thought to myself " Who wants to wear granny panties?". But I'm glad I took a look at the Motherhood Maternity lingerie section. I purchased two packs of maternity underwear. I picked up some boy shorts and thongs. Though the designs are far from Vickie's (Victoria's Secret), they are cute and don't make me feel like I'm 84 years old. I would personally recommend the boy shorts over the thongs. They are both made of cotton and have extra stretch in them. The boy short just feels better.The price wasn't half bad either. I spent less than $15 on each pack and it was worth the cost.I don't know about you but I definitely do not miss the wedgies from my pre maternity under wear. And my honey sends his compliments to motherhood maternity.
On to the over the shoulder bolder holder, better known as a bra. Its seems the fashion industry takes advantage of our vulnerable population. They charge exorbitant prices for things they know we need and is hard to substitute. I haven't purchased a maternity/nursing bra yet but judging by the rapid growth I need to get to a store asap! So I took to the Internet to do some price comparisons. Motherhood.com has the best prices. The price range on their bras are $13-$22. Target.com has some pretty good prices you can spend $58 on one of theirs. A Pea in the Pod must be out of their minds with their prices! I won't even mention their price range.
I'll be ordering two this weekend and will report back my experience. Happy Lingerie Shopping! TTYL!
One and Two and Switch!
Hey Haute Moms!
The subject for today's chat is exercise. The first thing I think of when picturing exercise is that episode of Martin when he took over the instruction of Gina's fitness class. He had them worn out with his aerobic shenanigans. I got a workout from the belly laughs. He is so crazy!
The thought of working out makes me tired even though I know I'm supposed to. I've read countless times that exercise during pregnancy will reduce achiness, boost energy, and keep you healthy. But how can I get those benefits if I'm too tired to get off my butt?
I bought two exercise DVDs and they are gathering dust. I have to walk a couple blocks from the parking lot to my building and have four flights of stairs in my house, but I still feel like I need to do more. The other day I let a three year old wear me out! But as we were bending, stretching, and running I felt good and full of energy. So I decided I wanted to hold on to that feeling without causing more soreness. I've been walking more and made use of Youtube. Youtube has got a lot of videos on prenatal yoga. I love the peaceful feeling and the stretches feel nice.
I've enlisted my sweety in my exercise quest. He has even offered to walk with me! I'm such a lucky girl. If you can find a partner in crime to work out with, they can be great motivators.
Before I was preparing for motherhood, I was on a self discovery and self esteem boosting mission. I lost weight and began to exercise more. My favorite form of exercise was exotic fitness. I felt sexy and confident. Now that I've got extra curves I thought that that form of exercise was best left for after my little one arrives. But thanks to the invention of facebook, I saw a classmate of mine teaching an exotic fitness class while pregnant! Go girl! So if you feel like learning a seductive move or two and want a fun work out, google local exotic fitness gyms.
So get off your newly round rump and break a sweat in some cute work out apparel! Can't wait till our next chat.
The subject for today's chat is exercise. The first thing I think of when picturing exercise is that episode of Martin when he took over the instruction of Gina's fitness class. He had them worn out with his aerobic shenanigans. I got a workout from the belly laughs. He is so crazy!
The thought of working out makes me tired even though I know I'm supposed to. I've read countless times that exercise during pregnancy will reduce achiness, boost energy, and keep you healthy. But how can I get those benefits if I'm too tired to get off my butt?
I bought two exercise DVDs and they are gathering dust. I have to walk a couple blocks from the parking lot to my building and have four flights of stairs in my house, but I still feel like I need to do more. The other day I let a three year old wear me out! But as we were bending, stretching, and running I felt good and full of energy. So I decided I wanted to hold on to that feeling without causing more soreness. I've been walking more and made use of Youtube. Youtube has got a lot of videos on prenatal yoga. I love the peaceful feeling and the stretches feel nice.
I've enlisted my sweety in my exercise quest. He has even offered to walk with me! I'm such a lucky girl. If you can find a partner in crime to work out with, they can be great motivators.
Before I was preparing for motherhood, I was on a self discovery and self esteem boosting mission. I lost weight and began to exercise more. My favorite form of exercise was exotic fitness. I felt sexy and confident. Now that I've got extra curves I thought that that form of exercise was best left for after my little one arrives. But thanks to the invention of facebook, I saw a classmate of mine teaching an exotic fitness class while pregnant! Go girl! So if you feel like learning a seductive move or two and want a fun work out, google local exotic fitness gyms.
So get off your newly round rump and break a sweat in some cute work out apparel! Can't wait till our next chat.
Mirror Mirror on the Wall
Hey Stunningly Beautiful Moms to Be!
Ok so the last four weeks have been like a mini baby bootcamp for me. I've been sharpening my parental skills and all though its great to train, I must admit I find myself missing just taking care of me. So that got me to thinking, in two months this will be a permanent change and I need a framework adjustment. The short time period was a scary reality.
I was reading in maternity fashion book (Bump It Up), that month seven is time to focus on Mommy. Its a great bit of sound advice. So I began searching for things that would help me take care of me. Then I realized, I already know what makes me happy and feel good. Bubble baths, glamour, trips to the spa, exercise, and a new hair do! So why not indulge now? I wont have to worry about childcare while I pamper myself for a while so I might as well take advantage of this time.
I researched the safety of massage during pregnancy and discovered that as long as you are out of your first trimester and seek out a prenatal massage its safe. I looked at a couple of videos on youtube and liked what I saw. For your comfort you will be instructed to lay on your side. The massage doesn't require you to be completely nude and you can always request a female masseuse. The masseuse will ensure that they are careful to properly and safely relax your body. Some spas have special packages just for expecting moms so get to searching. I'll let you know how my trip goes!
With the ever changing looks and performances, my skin likes to show these days, a facial is a necessity. I make myself give myself a scrub and a mask every Saturday or Sunday. But every once in a while it would be nice to lay back and be pampered. Let the esthetician know that you are expecting and whatever skin changes you have been experiencing. Breath in the relaxing oils and drift away.
So am I the only mom is planning her baby shower outfit over a month in advance? I want to look cute even if I don't feel it. I told my honey that I wanted a new dress and high heeled boots and he looked at me puzzled. I guess I cant expect for a man to understand our desire to feel stylish at every stage of our pregnancy. With the cameras flashing and dozens of eyes staring, I want to feel confident. So I've been shopping my closet and will soon hit up my fave places to shop. I even plan on getting falsies (false eyelashes) for the occasion!
Moral of the story is, indulge now. Shortly you will have a joy that will take up some of your me time. So mission one for this beauty with a bump is to find a spa asap! 'Till next time stay gorgeous.
Ok so the last four weeks have been like a mini baby bootcamp for me. I've been sharpening my parental skills and all though its great to train, I must admit I find myself missing just taking care of me. So that got me to thinking, in two months this will be a permanent change and I need a framework adjustment. The short time period was a scary reality.
I was reading in maternity fashion book (Bump It Up), that month seven is time to focus on Mommy. Its a great bit of sound advice. So I began searching for things that would help me take care of me. Then I realized, I already know what makes me happy and feel good. Bubble baths, glamour, trips to the spa, exercise, and a new hair do! So why not indulge now? I wont have to worry about childcare while I pamper myself for a while so I might as well take advantage of this time.
I researched the safety of massage during pregnancy and discovered that as long as you are out of your first trimester and seek out a prenatal massage its safe. I looked at a couple of videos on youtube and liked what I saw. For your comfort you will be instructed to lay on your side. The massage doesn't require you to be completely nude and you can always request a female masseuse. The masseuse will ensure that they are careful to properly and safely relax your body. Some spas have special packages just for expecting moms so get to searching. I'll let you know how my trip goes!
With the ever changing looks and performances, my skin likes to show these days, a facial is a necessity. I make myself give myself a scrub and a mask every Saturday or Sunday. But every once in a while it would be nice to lay back and be pampered. Let the esthetician know that you are expecting and whatever skin changes you have been experiencing. Breath in the relaxing oils and drift away.
So am I the only mom is planning her baby shower outfit over a month in advance? I want to look cute even if I don't feel it. I told my honey that I wanted a new dress and high heeled boots and he looked at me puzzled. I guess I cant expect for a man to understand our desire to feel stylish at every stage of our pregnancy. With the cameras flashing and dozens of eyes staring, I want to feel confident. So I've been shopping my closet and will soon hit up my fave places to shop. I even plan on getting falsies (false eyelashes) for the occasion!
Moral of the story is, indulge now. Shortly you will have a joy that will take up some of your me time. So mission one for this beauty with a bump is to find a spa asap! 'Till next time stay gorgeous.
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Reuse and Recycle!
Hey Fashionistas!
Just wanted to pass on a quick bit of advice. The other day I discovered two shirts in my own wardrobe that did not compliment my figure well before I was pregnant. When I tried them on recently, they were perfect! What once made me look like a tent and pregnant now makes me look like a maternity fashion expert. The moral of the story is, reframe items in your wardrobe, give them other uses, and be open to stretching your dollar and wardrobe.
Have a trapeze top?! They look great on your new figure and are incredibly comfortable. Have a dress that seems to be getting shorter and shorter? Pair it with a pair of skinnies or some leggings. Also, most fashion experts will tell you to stay away from your husband's wardrobe, but I believe there are treasures to be found. Fight the urge to wear his sweats and t-shirts but work his oxfords (button ups). Can you imagine how stylish you'll look in his belted oxford, a pair of leggings, layered necklaces, and some sexy pumps?! Fierce!
Also be open to browsing around Wally's World (My baby's nickname for Walmart)and local discount marts (Dollar General, Discount Mart, Lots) for inexpensive tops and dresses. I walked into one the other day and was pleasantly surprised. The discount store had cute maxi dresses for $10 and under! Their great for pregnancy because they cut down on outfit decision time, make you look tres feminine, and it wont matter if it doesn't look as good after a couple washes (just toss it out or add it to your pj pile).
Until next time my dears. Happy Savvy Shopping!
Just wanted to pass on a quick bit of advice. The other day I discovered two shirts in my own wardrobe that did not compliment my figure well before I was pregnant. When I tried them on recently, they were perfect! What once made me look like a tent and pregnant now makes me look like a maternity fashion expert. The moral of the story is, reframe items in your wardrobe, give them other uses, and be open to stretching your dollar and wardrobe.
Have a trapeze top?! They look great on your new figure and are incredibly comfortable. Have a dress that seems to be getting shorter and shorter? Pair it with a pair of skinnies or some leggings. Also, most fashion experts will tell you to stay away from your husband's wardrobe, but I believe there are treasures to be found. Fight the urge to wear his sweats and t-shirts but work his oxfords (button ups). Can you imagine how stylish you'll look in his belted oxford, a pair of leggings, layered necklaces, and some sexy pumps?! Fierce!
Also be open to browsing around Wally's World (My baby's nickname for Walmart)and local discount marts (Dollar General, Discount Mart, Lots) for inexpensive tops and dresses. I walked into one the other day and was pleasantly surprised. The discount store had cute maxi dresses for $10 and under! Their great for pregnancy because they cut down on outfit decision time, make you look tres feminine, and it wont matter if it doesn't look as good after a couple washes (just toss it out or add it to your pj pile).
Until next time my dears. Happy Savvy Shopping!
Bathin' Beauty
Hey Mammas!
So this summer has been hot! hot!hot! With this extra weight and newly found places that sweat, I have been looking for ways to stay cool. In my quest to stay out of the hellasious (yes that's a made up word)heat, I have found some methods to reduce the the amount of discomfort.
I guess I should warn you that preparation for the heat does take a little pre-planning but its well worth it. First, place two water bottles in the freezer every night. Cool water through out the day helps to stay cool, stay healthy, and keep from melting. Next, when you wake up, soak a wash cloth in ice cold water and ring it out. Place the wash cloth in a sandwich bag and pop it in the freezer until you're ready to head out the door. This can be used as a refresher throughout the day. You can place it on your forehead or to cool other sweating places. Also you can purchase a spritz for your face. I like the mist from mark. You can make your own, by mosing down to your local dollar store and purchasing a spray bottle. Fill it with water,put a couple lemon and cucumber slices in it, and you will be good to go. Its great for a quick cool down and to wake you up when you're about to nodd off.
Summer is the perfect time to invest in feminine wipes. You don't have to spend money on the name brand, the generic gets the job done. You can clean away sweat and add a hint of freshness. Also purchase a travel size stick of deodorant along with an extra pair of panties and leave it at the office.Invest in a good sun screen. Also got for light fragrances and keep a mini bottle of your favorite fragrance or get a vile of body oil.
Make-up sliding off your face? Do you look like you are melting? Invest in a great primer, switch to mineral foundation, find blotting sheets or powder, and give your skin a rest for a least two days a week.
Now...onto summer fun!The amusement park first peaked my interest, then the thought of being restricted to the wave pool and walking around a huge park shot that down (although I still have a slight urge to go). So the next best thing would be to hit the swimming pool. But what would I wear?!
I researched maternity bathing suits and wasn't impressed. I then took a looky loo on Target's website and liked what I saw. Since I plan on laying pool side this weekend I took a trip to Target yesterday. I tried on two tops and a bottom from the Liz Lange Maternity line. The fit was true to size and made me feel confident. I didn't want to look like a sack of potatoes! After I got the vote of approval from my sweetie and his mini me, I decided to get it. Now I must warn you that even though the bathing suit was from Tar-jay(Target), it was still a little bit pricey. They sold the pieces separately and individually each piece was about $22. I spent almost $50 on a bathing suit that will only compliment my figure while its hosting a little one!
As for cover ups, you can always find cute ones on motherhood.com, oldnavy.com, and target.com. Or you can save money by perusing the thrift for a cute sundress, shorts, or a breezy top. My mom just made a trip there and bought me a nice pair of jean shorts and an adorable baby doll top.
Check back for pics of the bathing suit! Stay cool!
So this summer has been hot! hot!hot! With this extra weight and newly found places that sweat, I have been looking for ways to stay cool. In my quest to stay out of the hellasious (yes that's a made up word)heat, I have found some methods to reduce the the amount of discomfort.
I guess I should warn you that preparation for the heat does take a little pre-planning but its well worth it. First, place two water bottles in the freezer every night. Cool water through out the day helps to stay cool, stay healthy, and keep from melting. Next, when you wake up, soak a wash cloth in ice cold water and ring it out. Place the wash cloth in a sandwich bag and pop it in the freezer until you're ready to head out the door. This can be used as a refresher throughout the day. You can place it on your forehead or to cool other sweating places. Also you can purchase a spritz for your face. I like the mist from mark. You can make your own, by mosing down to your local dollar store and purchasing a spray bottle. Fill it with water,put a couple lemon and cucumber slices in it, and you will be good to go. Its great for a quick cool down and to wake you up when you're about to nodd off.
Summer is the perfect time to invest in feminine wipes. You don't have to spend money on the name brand, the generic gets the job done. You can clean away sweat and add a hint of freshness. Also purchase a travel size stick of deodorant along with an extra pair of panties and leave it at the office.Invest in a good sun screen. Also got for light fragrances and keep a mini bottle of your favorite fragrance or get a vile of body oil.
Make-up sliding off your face? Do you look like you are melting? Invest in a great primer, switch to mineral foundation, find blotting sheets or powder, and give your skin a rest for a least two days a week.
Now...onto summer fun!The amusement park first peaked my interest, then the thought of being restricted to the wave pool and walking around a huge park shot that down (although I still have a slight urge to go). So the next best thing would be to hit the swimming pool. But what would I wear?!
I researched maternity bathing suits and wasn't impressed. I then took a looky loo on Target's website and liked what I saw. Since I plan on laying pool side this weekend I took a trip to Target yesterday. I tried on two tops and a bottom from the Liz Lange Maternity line. The fit was true to size and made me feel confident. I didn't want to look like a sack of potatoes! After I got the vote of approval from my sweetie and his mini me, I decided to get it. Now I must warn you that even though the bathing suit was from Tar-jay(Target), it was still a little bit pricey. They sold the pieces separately and individually each piece was about $22. I spent almost $50 on a bathing suit that will only compliment my figure while its hosting a little one!
As for cover ups, you can always find cute ones on motherhood.com, oldnavy.com, and target.com. Or you can save money by perusing the thrift for a cute sundress, shorts, or a breezy top. My mom just made a trip there and bought me a nice pair of jean shorts and an adorable baby doll top.
Check back for pics of the bathing suit! Stay cool!
Saturday, August 14, 2010
Au' Casual
Hello Gorgeous!
Who says pregnant can't be stylish and sexy? Definitely not me! I have been determined to stay true to my sense of style as much as possible. In an attempt to play up the features I like about myself I bought body conscious clothing. So I wanted to showcase some great Friday at work, Saturday at play, or brunch on Sunday outfits. The key to looking fab is to play up your new curves, create a waist, and play with color.
The outfits featured are from Old Navy and the thrift store. Both sweaters, the pink shirt, and leggings are from Old Navy. The black collared shirt and skinnies are from the thrift.
Happy Shopping!
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Extra! Extra! Read All About It!
Hey Beauties with a Bump!
Just had to fill you in a great fashion discovery my sister told me about. Forever 21now has a maternity line! Forever 21 is famous for providing inexpensive fashion for young women. I checked out the website and saw that you will probably have to stick to purchasing the clothes online as there are not many stores carrying it. The line only has a couple pieces right now but they are trendy, cute, and affordable. I plan on purchasing a few items and will give a review. Until then...happy shopping!
Just had to fill you in a great fashion discovery my sister told me about. Forever 21now has a maternity line! Forever 21 is famous for providing inexpensive fashion for young women. I checked out the website and saw that you will probably have to stick to purchasing the clothes online as there are not many stores carrying it. The line only has a couple pieces right now but they are trendy, cute, and affordable. I plan on purchasing a few items and will give a review. Until then...happy shopping!
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Workin' 9-5
Hello Hard Workin' Ladies!
Its been a challenge to stay comfortable yet appropriate for work. But after browsing both my pre maternity and maternity clothes, I've found a couple outfits that are office chic and easy on my growing figure. A few tips to creating outfits that are business appropriate are to purchase staple pieces i.e. black pencil skirt, white dress shirt,black slacks, belts, khakis, swing jackets, shift dresses, and cute cardigans. These pieces you can mix and match, which saves you money. I have displayed a couple of my work outfits and will upload more soon.
To avoid looking like a sack of potatoes, I accentuate and create a waist. This can be done by buttoning a few buttons on your foxy cardi or by adding a belt just beneath your breast and above your bump. Also when purchasing maternity attire, look for tops and dresses that have an empire waist and create a clear delineation from your breasts and bump.
I purchased both dresses, shirt, and skirt from the thrift store. The swing jacket and belt where apart of my pre maternity wardrobe. The cardigan I purchased from oldnavy.com in their maternity section. What I like about the green striped dress is that is versatile. With the right accessories you can wear it to work or a fun weekend activity.
Check back soon for more outfit ideas!
Monday, August 9, 2010
So Fresh and So Clean
Hello Divas!
Today I want to chat with you about our upkeep and maintenance of this beautiful temple that is preparing to spring fourth life. First I have to start out by confessing about my neglect of my own up keep. The other day I had a doc's appointment and wore a really cute cardi and dress. I felt confident and cute. That was until I looked down at my legs and realized that they looked like the trunks of a 15 year old boy! I couldn't remember the last time I shaved my legs. And whilst I examined my legs, I noticed I had crust on my toes! Oh how embarrassed and unkempt I felt!
So I decided that it was time for a tune up. I was neglecting taking care of my body because of fatigue, attempting to save money, and just plum forgetting to do it! But what I learned is that upkeep is not just for vanity purposes but also serves as hygiene maintenance.
Shaving: I don't know about you, but since I have become pregnant, I realized that I sweat more. I rarely would sweat before but boy can I pour buckets now. Which means that is completely necessary to keep all bodily hair trimmed. Its not a pretty site when you mix sweat and hair. Since pregnant women have hormones gone haywire, we a re prone to yeast infections. All though we can't avoid them completely, we can take steps to keep them at bay. If you're like me, its becoming increasingly challenging to shave as there is a belly that is increasing in size. And for that may I recommend enlisting assistance, shaving outside of the shower with your leg propped on the toilet or a chair, and waxing.
Mani/Pedi: Needed for both upkeep and just a temporary vaca. My nails looked like a garbled mess and my toes...let's not go there. I was nervous about frequenting to nail salon because of the fumes. But after searching my neighborhood, I've found two salons were there is little to no fumes and they have adequate sanitation practices. I feel like a lady now. I try to stick to light colors on my fingernails so that if it begins to chip before I can get another mani, its less noticeable.
Eyebrows: In one word...Bert. You don't want to look like a Sesame Street character! To cut down on cost invest in a good pair of tweezers and pluck stray hairs in between visits to the salon. You don't realize how much your eyebrows play apart in how fantabolous you look and feel and until they haven't been groomed after a long time.
Later Divas!
Today I want to chat with you about our upkeep and maintenance of this beautiful temple that is preparing to spring fourth life. First I have to start out by confessing about my neglect of my own up keep. The other day I had a doc's appointment and wore a really cute cardi and dress. I felt confident and cute. That was until I looked down at my legs and realized that they looked like the trunks of a 15 year old boy! I couldn't remember the last time I shaved my legs. And whilst I examined my legs, I noticed I had crust on my toes! Oh how embarrassed and unkempt I felt!
So I decided that it was time for a tune up. I was neglecting taking care of my body because of fatigue, attempting to save money, and just plum forgetting to do it! But what I learned is that upkeep is not just for vanity purposes but also serves as hygiene maintenance.
Shaving: I don't know about you, but since I have become pregnant, I realized that I sweat more. I rarely would sweat before but boy can I pour buckets now. Which means that is completely necessary to keep all bodily hair trimmed. Its not a pretty site when you mix sweat and hair. Since pregnant women have hormones gone haywire, we a re prone to yeast infections. All though we can't avoid them completely, we can take steps to keep them at bay. If you're like me, its becoming increasingly challenging to shave as there is a belly that is increasing in size. And for that may I recommend enlisting assistance, shaving outside of the shower with your leg propped on the toilet or a chair, and waxing.
Mani/Pedi: Needed for both upkeep and just a temporary vaca. My nails looked like a garbled mess and my toes...let's not go there. I was nervous about frequenting to nail salon because of the fumes. But after searching my neighborhood, I've found two salons were there is little to no fumes and they have adequate sanitation practices. I feel like a lady now. I try to stick to light colors on my fingernails so that if it begins to chip before I can get another mani, its less noticeable.
Eyebrows: In one word...Bert. You don't want to look like a Sesame Street character! To cut down on cost invest in a good pair of tweezers and pluck stray hairs in between visits to the salon. You don't realize how much your eyebrows play apart in how fantabolous you look and feel and until they haven't been groomed after a long time.
Later Divas!
Thursday, August 5, 2010
Flower Power
Hello Mom's to Be!
I want to chat about how the simple things can enhance our physical appearance and boost our self esteem. This morning I woke up and realized that my face had gotten fatter, and the love of my life kindly said " I don't notice it...but babe you are pregnant". In his sweet way he was trying to console me but I could tell he didn't understand. The mirror showed a reflection that I wasn't comfortable with and I needed a pick me up fast, as I had a doctor's appointment and work to think about. So I went straight to my accessories corner. I grabbed a headband that matched my outfit perfectly and placed pearls on my wrist. The accessories massaged my bruised self esteem and I walked out of our bedroom with a smile.
Moral of the story is accessories are great remedies to not so great days and nights. Since I've been pregnant, I've purchased flowers to wear in my hair, switched my handbags more frequently, and bought a couple of inexpensive jewelry pieces.
Flowers: Theses are a great way to add that extra touch of femininity. I wear them in my hair and pin them to my clothes. You can find them cheap at hottopic.com and forever21.com.
Handbags: I had been in a rut and carried the same bag for two weeks. This morning I changed it and felt like a stylish lady. I got a compliment on the bag and decided it felt good to give myself an extra 5 minutes in the morning to switch handbags.
Jewelry: Stick to buying earrings, stretch bracelets,necklaces. I've noticed that my fingers are swollen and its getting increasingly harder to put on non stretch bracelets. So save yourself the disappointment and buy what will fit now.
TTYL!!!
I want to chat about how the simple things can enhance our physical appearance and boost our self esteem. This morning I woke up and realized that my face had gotten fatter, and the love of my life kindly said " I don't notice it...but babe you are pregnant". In his sweet way he was trying to console me but I could tell he didn't understand. The mirror showed a reflection that I wasn't comfortable with and I needed a pick me up fast, as I had a doctor's appointment and work to think about. So I went straight to my accessories corner. I grabbed a headband that matched my outfit perfectly and placed pearls on my wrist. The accessories massaged my bruised self esteem and I walked out of our bedroom with a smile.
Moral of the story is accessories are great remedies to not so great days and nights. Since I've been pregnant, I've purchased flowers to wear in my hair, switched my handbags more frequently, and bought a couple of inexpensive jewelry pieces.
Flowers: Theses are a great way to add that extra touch of femininity. I wear them in my hair and pin them to my clothes. You can find them cheap at hottopic.com and forever21.com.
Handbags: I had been in a rut and carried the same bag for two weeks. This morning I changed it and felt like a stylish lady. I got a compliment on the bag and decided it felt good to give myself an extra 5 minutes in the morning to switch handbags.
Jewelry: Stick to buying earrings, stretch bracelets,necklaces. I've noticed that my fingers are swollen and its getting increasingly harder to put on non stretch bracelets. So save yourself the disappointment and buy what will fit now.
TTYL!!!
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